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Where to begin??? I just feel like I do EVERYTHING!!! My husband and I both work full time jobs. We have a daughter who will be turning 7 in May. I guess my biggest complaint is that....I am so sick of being the maid!! I get no help picking up dishes, laundry, mail you name it....it's up to me to do it. I feel like I shouldn't have to ask him to take the garbage out or to bring his dirty dishes out to the sink or to pick his dirty clothes up off the floor and to make an effort to hit the laundry basket. I get soooooooo mad and all this anger just builds and builds and until I start to scream and yell and then I'm the jerk!! I've talked with him about this for about a life time and nothing ever changes. So I think to myself...if you want to live in a dump...fine, I won't touch anything and let it look like a dump. Well that lasts about a day and then I start cleaning and throwing away anything in site. I guess I've gone on long enought. What do you think.... Am I too demanding? Naggy? What? Be honest. I think this is where some of my depression is coming from. Sometimes I feel like it would be easier with having him around because then I would only have my daughter to pick up after. But I love him too much to end our marriage over that.... So send me some advice and be honest!!! Have a good day! Thanks!
 
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I can relate to your problem completely! I feel I get no cooperation from my family in keeping the house clean. They won't pick up after themselves. I'm not sure if my expectations are too high. I don't think so..It's hard to tell. I'm hoping this program will help with how angry I get at them and how down on myself. I don't know if this helps you at all. At least you know there's someone else out there. Good Luck to both of uS!
 
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