I have been on this and I have used my assertive skills before. Today I decided to use them once more I had a choice not to and just go with the flow but ,nope I didn`t . I had made up my mind to go ahead and not be used . Yes!! So I went ahead and spoke up for my self with out ,



arguing and quarreling.It was great I got what I needed and I felt good I even had to be with that person all day.all I knew is to do this "to say what I mean and mean what I said and drop it".I tell you it really works and i feel great about it.I hope all of you get this and not let any one take from you any thing that is yours in the first place. Have an assertive day ok

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WOO HOO!!!!! that is great isnt it great when you start to feel in control again??? Keep up the good work