I find that when I am feeling overwhelmingly stressed it is because I have usually tried to do too much by myself. I am learning to ask others for help. And guess what? If I ask, they usually do without complaining. I guess being the martyr really is unnecessary.

Annette,
YOu are so right. I still have to remind myself of that. I have some capable kids and they do their share around here. Actually they are the ones to usually make the messes! Take care, Reena