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I have had a terrible fear of the dentist for as long as I can remember. I use to have a beautiful smile and after I had my daughter, I let the fear overwelm me. My teeth had gone really bad and finally, I made myself call a dentist. I've had 5 appointments and sucessfully made it through the first stages of coming back to myself. It feels so good to do something about for MYSELF in more than one way! So, to anyone that has a fear, it can be overcome and you'll thank yourself for it later.
Good luck to you all, you can do it! |
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Thank you for your comments. I have dentist apptointment to schedule. I have the number right here at the computer. I know I will feel better to take that step. I am a nurse and always had a nice smile but since I had to retire early, I just let myself go. I do so want to change and get the courage to fix whatever is broken. I will continue with my program and repeat the lessons I think I need to.
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The other day I went to the dentist for a root canal.
While I was waiting for the dentist to begin, I started to feel my heart poundinmg in my throat, kinda like butterflies, and I couldnt seem to control it. I started to panic, but just sat there. Then she started giving me the shots, and she asked if I was okay, since she could feel my heart pounding....that helped! Then she asked if I had high blood pressure.... I thought, "Okay, this it....my fears are finally coming true...I'm gonna have a heart attack." But I hung in there in spite of the fear, and I eventually relaxed... They were playing office background music, and this song, the theme from "A night at the Roxbury" came on....I kept picturing Will Ferrel bouncing his head to that song, and I started cracking up while she was still working on my mouth!! She's going, "Are you okay? Am I hurting you?" I mangaed to tell her that I was laughing at the music, so we all laughed.... I ended up having fun at the dentist! |
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Hi all
The dentist............just saying the word would put me in a panic. I'm doing much better now. I just went to the dentist on Thursday WITHOUT panic and it felt really good! One thing that helped me was to tell the hygenist/dentist that I have always feared coming in. Just getting that out in the open was a relief to me. They were very understanding and said most people do have some fear of the dentist. They offered to help in anyway they can including giving me anti-anxiety meds if necessary. Now when ever I think about canceling any appt. I know they will give me the third degree about why, so I tend to cancel a whole lot less! LOL Admitting your fear can sometimes help break the ice in a tense situation such as Thief went through. Serene |
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I totally agree to the post about admitting the fear and that makes it easier. That is exactly what I did!! I kind of felt weird but, I thought to myself that I'm not the first one to say I have a fear. They were very understanding and also offered me something to help calm me down. I haven't takin' anything because I want to do it all by myself. I still get nerveous but, each time I go, it gets easier and easier.
Candis |
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Oh my gosh, the dentist. I have put off going for over l0 years and all because of the anxiety about it. I have high blood pressure and am so afraid it will go through the roof if I am at the dentist. I have to go though, it has been so long that now I am having problems with my teeth. I will probably pay for it finacially too!Just when I thought I might try to buy this program, then the dentist problem. I can`t afford both - that is for sure. It helps to read all your stories.
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Fun at the dentist? Should those two words be aloud in the same sentence?! Ha! What a great illustration of how to calm yourself down in the midst of panic. Great job! Tammy |
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i like the answer thief gave, to, i dislike doctors to, only because of my anxiety. I finally figured out that if i counted the holes in the accoustic ceiling while they were working on me, it took my mind off what was happening. I know its wierd, but we each have our own way of coping, mine is counting things when under panic or anxiety. Best of Luck, a dentist is harmless, remember that. its better than having NO teeth!!
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Nervous Nelly
I think that your idea of counting the holes is funny but, I'm gonna try it. It probably would keep my mind off of what is going on. Good Tip! |
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