http://speakingoffaith.publicradio.org/programs/play/index.shtmla friend of mine sent me this link, I hope it works for you; in a American Public Media/ Speaking of Faith program, about how play,spirit, + Character He says; all though it looks meaningless, to us, it is actualy necessary to developing nurons, that tirger joy, pleasure, selfassuredness.
It is his sence that the lack of play and interaction, with toys, and other children, not so much in managed team type but just in natural rough and tumble playing with each other. "Play equips humanbeings to live in this world". People who are deprived of it, they are fixed, and riged, complexs, and(depressed) When people do not play they do not get a real sence of how to get along with each other, you trooly need to let the kids play, and get hurt by each other, so they solve the concept of violence early on, (grow up understanding what they are and wear they fit in the world). He says he never interviewed a murder that was allowed to just play as a child.
It is a very intresting concept hope it comes on for you.
Cheri keep looking up 8^)
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