hi! I was just wondering if there is anyone out there who has a spouse that may also need to be in the program. I have done alot of personal inventory and it seems as if my anxiety has grown out of control in the years I have been with him. He is a very loud, high- strung person who sometimes can be very mean. I cry at least once every week. I am at the point where I hope I die and state that to myself under my breath all the time. My husband is a good person(who I fell in love with) but being out of work on comp. because of a work injury is driving him batty- he's taking it out on me.
We just got married and I am planning my funeral. Help.

cindy lu,
sry thst he has been out of work and took it out on you..i knw how it feels to have someone that has a sickness or illness and you are there for them and then the table is turned on you and it makes you cry. my wife has had 3 surgeries since the 12 of may on the same knee..although it is geting better .. she is still not where she needs to be..she needs to do the program like i did in 2004. it helped me so much.. but we don't yell at each other. we have compassion for each other. we will be married 2 yrs in april of next year. i wish you the best of luck.. hang in there and know that we will be praying for you. GOD BLESS...
don

donp-
Thank you for the reply. I will try to keep my head up.