I am 50 years old and started the program for help with my anxiety. My husband is supportive but he is 59 years old and is blind in one eye and bad back He is getting some support from the VA. I work full-time and come home and he just sits there watching Tv. He does the dishes sometimes and will get milk now and then. We own our home and his truck. I get so frustrated because he says he worked hard until the past 5 years. I have health issues that make it rough to get a new job. I need help with which tapes I should listen to tolerate a husband who is satisfied with doing nothing!

i have anxiety and so does my wife. you said he was geting some help from the VA. that makes him a veteran.... i know that its hard to make it with him siting around on his butt while you work...if he is blind in one eye then is he geting any disability... just asking.. i am retired from the military and i know how you feel going through the anxiey and trying to take care of him as well....hang in there and do the program.. it will teach you how to use your skills to cope and what you need to do...you are in our thoughts and prayers...you can write me anytime and we can talk...it was just this year that i felt felt normal again..i did the program in 2004. you can do it. you are a survivor..
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