HI guys. I just need some support for a situation that is currently going on in my life. I had been with my now ex-boyfriend for approximately two years and then I broke it off with him this past March. I am not blaming the relationship, but I did develop low self esteem and anxiety and depression while in the relationship. Although I broke it off with him in March we still continued to try to make it work up until now. I am only 22 years old. I am working on getting over anxiety and depression, and right now, I don't need that relationship in my life. Last night, I told him that it was over "for real" this time, but I do feel so GUILTY!!! He has been a close friend since the 8th grade, but things are not working out and I want to date other people and take time to strengthen myself. I'm not asking for advice, but I just need some positive feedback and maybe need to hear from someone who's been through this.

You said that you want time to strengthen yourself. I would suggest that you do just that. Uncover your authentic self. When you are comfortable in your own skin, are your own best friend, then you may draw someone into your life that will compliment you. I have been in a 21 year relationship, with many ups & downs. I can honestly say that we truly compliment each other because He is comfortable in his own skin & I am always striving to be...Wishing you the best.