HELP! I have been divorced for 8 years, and I am a successful, attractive woman, but still haven't managed to find Mr. Right. I date often, but know that my anxiety plays a huge roll in the outcome of my relationships. If I really start to fall for someone, I get so scared and anxious that I ultimately blow it, because no matter how hard I try to seem confident, I am not a good actrees. If I date someone that starts to fall for me faster than I fall for them, I get anxious and don't want to hurt them, so I end it. It seems to always be one or the other. How can I break this cycle of behavior?! I am such a loving, giving person, and I am aftraid if I don't get over this, when my son grows up, I will be all alone. There isn't anything in the program (I am only on Lesson 5) that addresses anxiety and relationships. Does anyone else go through this?

Yes, I understand. I am sort of going thru the same thing. Here's my own personal little suggestion of the best place to meet the right guy - at church !