I was diagnosed with mild OCD two years ago, but I've been dealing with it most of my life. I recently moved away by myself to go to grad school, so I think I'm having issues with my OCD because of the transition. Anyway, I'm having major obsessive guilt right now. My brain must really be digging hard, because I'm falling back on things that I said about 4 years ago to my current boyfriend that may have been a lie because I don't know for sure or not that I told the truth. Is this irrational? I feel like I should confess and say that something might have happened, but I'm not sure, and I'm pretty sure I told him the truth the first time. Does anyone else have this problem? How do you deal with it?

First, I've noticed that whenever my stress level goes up, I have much more trouble with my OCD. It sounds like you've recently made a major life change, so it shouldn't be unexpected that you're having more trouble with your OCD.

Second, I find with my OCD that my first gut feeling is the right one. You can talk about it with your boyfriend if you think it will make you feel better, but what your describing sounds like a classic OCD response and your fears are likely unwarranted. In my (non-medical) opinion, the best things you can do for yourself are recognize that these are obsessive thoughts and then use positive self-talk to calm yourself down. Don't let yourself be fooled by false doubts.

Be well,
Jamie