HI everybody im just wondering if anybody eles has this problem im 37 never been married close but not yet it seem i have a hard time talking to the oppsite sex im alway wondering what there thinking of me an all relationship ive been in after about 3 or 4 months i close my doors to them i just wont let anybody get close to me if i think there getting close i back off i dont want to do this but i do an then breaking up i just cant seem to do that eitier cuz dont want to hurt there feeling but im not sure im breaking up with them cuz i dont like them or cuz im so negative to them an about them an myself well if this make any since to anybody an you can help me or have input or feel this way let me no