It's not fair..I feel as though I got the crappy end of the stick..it's not fair. I'm suffering here and the ex has got a girlfriend and was left with everything that i work so hard to get. I have to start all over. what Ihave i done to deserve this short of treatment.Please advise.

Shalini,

My heart goes out to you. It sounds like you are having a tough time. You haven't done anything to deserve what's going on. Try to see it as a fresh start, a new beginning, an opportunity to create the life you truly want to live. I know this is hard, but try reframing things and see what happens. Good luck!

Genie

Your not alone,

It's happen to me,I read this from time to time by Mother Theresa !

People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered;
Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives;
Be kind anyway.
If you are successful, you will win some false friends
and some true enemies;
Succeed anyway.
If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you;
Be honest and frank anyway.
What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight;
Build anyway.
If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous;
Be happy anyway.
The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow;
Do good anyway.
Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough;
Give the world the best you've got anyway.

You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God.
It was never between you and them anyway.

Sit n spin

Wow that is amazing. I take it you got through it..pm me and we can talk about it.

I do know where you are coming from as I felt the very same way about 10 years ago when I left my first husband.

I now know that that was G-D opening the window when I closed the door to my marriage. I now get to be free enough to live 2 1/2 hours from my adult children and my grandson and my own mother so that I can live MY DREAM and live on my own farm.

If I had not left him and taken nothing I would still be living in the city with all of the miserable thoughts I had at that time. Now I am open enough to start this wonderful program. When I was stuck with a person that caused me emotional pain I was not even aware that I was able to help myself.My depression and sense of self worth grew deeper and deeper.. Now I have actually taken control and bought this course because I AM WORTH WHATEVER IT TAKES TO BE HEALTHY AND FREE.

I am the only person that can help me feel any better.

When my life felt as if it had hit bottom and I felt the "WHY ME - WHY IS IT ALWAYS ME?" I let myself fall apart and I blamed everyone else. My despair led me to today. Today I love where I live and the outer portion of my life is in a much better place. My insides meed the delicate care now - and now I can really focus on the inner me.
I hope that this may have helped out.